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I hope to have a natural childbirth, with as few medical interventions as possible. I understand that interventions may be necessary for the health of the baby and me. I plan to have my husband, Jeremy, present throughout labor and birth. Please consult with us if medical concerns mean you will be unable to respect the following wishes. In case of a serious medical emergency, I would like a Catholic priest to be called.
I would like to be able to walk and change position at will throughout labor and delivery.(1)
I would like the room to have quiet, dim lighting, and as few people present as possible.
I would like to wait until I feel the urge to push before beginning the pushing phase.
I would like to be able to drink clear liquids throughout labor.
I do not wish to have any artificial labor induction or augmentation.
I would like to avoid using an IV or having an access device inserted unless necessary. (2)
I will ask for pain medications if I need them. Please do not offer during labor.
I prefer not to have an episiotomy unless required for the baby's safety.
I prefer not to have continuous or internal fetal monitoring, unless necessary. (3)
My husband does not wish to cut the cord. Please do not clamp/cut the cord immediately.
I would like to hold the baby while I deliver the placenta and any tissue repairs are made. (4)
Unless required for health reasons, I do not wish to be separated from my baby.
I plan to breastfeed the baby and would like to begin nursing very shortly after birth.
I would like to have the baby evaluated and bathed in my presence.
I prefer any immunizations, including Hep B, to be postponed to a later time.
If the baby is a boy, I do not want him circumcised.
I do not wish to have any bottles or pacifiers given to the baby.
(1) I spent most of my active labor time asleep, so this wasn't really an issue until the pushing phase. Somehow I ended up on my back with my legs in the air to push, which definitely wasn't what I originally had in mind. However, by that point I couldn't sustain logical thought for very long and just kind of did as I was told. This time around, my husband knows in more detail what I would like (last time, I think I confidently told him, "I can tell you what I want when it happens."). He can advocate for me more effectively.
(2) I was strep positive during Peter's pregnancy, so I was given antibiotics administered via an IV device. It was a little annoying, but not as bad as I thought it would be. Still, I hope to avoid it this time.
(3) Since there was meconium in my amniotic fluid, Peter was considered "in distress." The nurse began external continuous monitoring, which prevented me from using the shower. When my doctor arrived, he basically told her she was over-reacting, since there were NO signs of distress from the monitoring, and removed the monitor until during the pushing phase. Hooray!
(4) Again, since Peter was considered in distress, he was taken to the other side of the room immediately after birth to be checked. (His APGAR score was 9 both times, so he was fine.) Anyway, he wasn't brought back until after I had delivered the placenta and was all stitched up. Truthfully, that didn't really bother me, but since breastfeeding stimulates oxytocin release, it makes sense to have that helping along the placenta delivery.